Reclaim your pleasure. Ignite your power. Become a woman turned on to life.

Are you ready to live a life that truly satisfies you, from the inside out?

For too long, a quiet disconnect from your body and pleasure has kept you from fully experiencing your power. Many women don't even realize that their sexuality is a magnificent superpower that belongs entirely to them – and no one else.

Welcome to School of Whole. This isn't just a program; it's a profound, 12-month journey designed to help you awaken your inner vitality, embrace radical self-love, and become truly lit up and turned on to every beautiful facet of your life.

Lacey Haynes guiding women in an empowering group movement session for embodiment and connection.

Stepping into a life where you're finally free from the quiet grip of shame around your body and pleasure. You'll feel deeply connected to your body's wisdom, allowing you to be more alive and present than ever before.

Picture a profound sense of confidence and inner power radiating from your very core, making you sexually vibrant and turned on, experiencing intimacy on a whole new level.

You'll be unstoppable in pursuing your desires, knowing your worth and purpose with unwavering clarity, all while being surrounded by a supportive sisterhood who truly sees and champions you. This is a life of joy, passion, and deep fulfillment, perfectly aligned with your truest desires.

Imagine…

Mette Koivusalo

School of Whole has been the best thing for me since... Birth! Through this course I am fully becoming awakened and feeling alive as well as healed in my body. Honestly this journey has helped to heal the whole relationship to my body and mind in profound ways, I am eternally grateful.

Mette smiling, sharing her transformative experience with School of Whole.

Emily Cross

It's just clicked for me... That I am in ownership of my pleasure & it comes from within me. I don't need to GET anything from outside myself because I've already GOT it inside. I am whole. I can feel myself launching into my limitless potential... Life has never felt so good. You & your teachings have changed my life.

Emily smiling, sharing her transformative experience with School of Whole.

· Lacey has been featured in: The Guardian · The Times · Dua Lipa's Service 95 · BBC · Red Magazine · The Daily Mail · CBC · Channel4 UK

· Lacey has been featured in: The Guardian · The Times · Dua Lipa's Service 95 · BBC · Red Magazine · The Daily Mail · CBC · Channel4 UK

Meet Lacey Haynes: Your Guide to Unlocking Your Full Self

Lacey Haynes smiling, ready to guide women on their journey to sexual empowerment.

Hi, I'm Lacey Haynes. I'm a women’s sex coach, author, podcast host, and an all-out sexual liberator. I first started this work because I, too, felt a deep-seated disconnect from my own power and pleasure. I felt unconfident, unsure, and wasn't truly living my purpose.

Seven years and millions of people later, my work resonates because it's born from real experience and, frankly, it freaking works. I've guided hundreds of women just like you inside School of Whole to transform their lives.

This is the most important work for women: to awaken and integrate their sexuality so they can become truly lit up, turned on, confident, and unstoppable, living gorgeous lives on their own terms – all fully supported in sisterhood.

Your Four-Part Journey to Reclaiming Your Power

You're here because something's holding you back from truly shining. It's not your fault, and it's time to change the narrative. Here’s how School of Whole guides you to break free and reclaim your power:

One. Greet the Invisible Walls

The first step is acknowledging the subtle, often unconscious, shame and disconnect that keep your sexuality — and your power — small. We'll help you gently but directly face these feelings, understanding how they've influenced your body, pleasure, and life. This isn't about judgment; it's about seeing clearly what's been hidden.

Two. Meet Your True Self with Radical Love

Once you've greeted these obstacles, you'll learn to meet them with profound self-compassion and understanding. Through powerful practices, you'll begin to dismantle old beliefs and reconnect with your innate worthiness. This is where you start to understand that your sexuality is your superpower, and it's yours alone to define and enjoy.

Three. Heal What's Held You Back

With a foundation of self-love, we dive into deep healing. This is where you release the emotional weight of past experiences, societal conditioning, and any lingering feelings of inadequacy. We equip you with practical tools to transform these blocks, clearing the path for uninhibited self-expression and genuine connection.

Four. Get Lit Up and Turned On to Life

The ultimate outcome: you're not "fixed" — you're ignited . You understand you’ve always been whole but have suppressed parts of your epic self. You'll experience a profound sense of aliveness, confidence, and pleasure that extends far beyond the bedroom. You'll be turned on to your creativity, your purpose, your relationships, and the sheer joy of being in your body, fully expressed and unapologetically powerful

Introducing… School of Whole: Your Path to Whole, Connected, and Turned-On Living.

School of Whole is the seminal online program designed to guide you through the courageous process of greeting the shame, meeting the disconnect, and deeply healing your relationship with your body, pleasure, and sexuality.

Over 12 months, you will become profoundly connected to what you truly want, fully embody your power, and finally live wildly turned-on to life and lovers.

What You'll Achieve in School of Whole:

By the end of your 12 months, you'll be able to...

  • Experience profound freedom from sexual shame, allowing you to fully express yourself.

  • Feel deeply connected to your body and its wisdom, healing years of disconnect.

  • Live in a state of consistent turn-on, not just in sex, but in your entire life.

  • Embrace your sensual power, feeling lit up from the inside out.

  • Naturally magnetize what you desire because you're operating from a place of wholeness and pleasure.

  • Confidently greet and navigate any lingering discomfort, knowing you have the tools to meet it and move through.

  • Feel worthy and whole – not just in theory, but as an embodied truth.

  • Share your truth with full conviction and live free without needing validation.

  • Command a room with your presence and magnetize opportunities to you.

  • Trust yourself, your ideas, and your creative nudges.

  • Live in turn-on as a sexually expressed woman and in love with your body.

  • Deeply connected to yourself, your partner, and your purpose.

The School of Whole Experience: Your Optimal Container to Thrive

School of Whole creates the perfect environment for resonant women to flourish. Here's how:

Lacey Haynes, lead coach in School of Whole, ready to guide women on their journey to sexual empowerment.

1. Live Calls with Lacey

You'll immediately be in Lacey's presence, sharing energy and guidance for 12 months. Participate in 2-3 live calls every month for coaching, mentoring, and deep healing practices that will powerfully shift how you feel about yourself and your life.

Air White

“The live sessions are absolutely my favourite part of SOW. Every single call the download has been so potent and so supportive. Lacey, You are a goddess. I thank you deeply for sharing your pure honest heart. For prospective SOW students, if you feel a nudge to join, listen! You are worthy, you belong, and we cannot wait to welcome you into this sacred sisterhood.” -

Air sharing her transformative experience with School of Whole and the sisterhood.
A community of women smiling, embracing, and connecting in a supportive group setting.

2. The Sisterhood of Your Dreams

magine an entirely new network of like-souled sisters from around the world, instantly ready to welcome and support you. School of Whole women have started businesses, navigated heartbreak, and become lifelong friends. This community is priceless, reprogramming you for a new depth of presence, vulnerability, and support unlike anything you’ve experienced.

Kristina Jatho

“My SOW Sisters and the live sessions are my go-to place whenever I need advice, love and support. This community has made me stronger and I am still growing!”

Kristina smiling, sharing her transformative experience with School of Whole and the community she's made participating.
Women actively participating in a live group workshop with Lacey Haynes, learning and connecting.

3. The School of Whole Core Curriculum

Gain instant access to our tried-and-tested curriculum, guiding you through 6 perfectly curated modules. This self-paced program blends embodiment activations with theory, offering ample space for movement, reflection, and practical tools you can apply immediately to elevate every facet of your life.

Sarah

“I wasn't sure at first because it sounded so radical and taboo but the investment in myself has been totally worth it and the rebellious child in me is back again!! I also have to add that the final module blew my mind. I’m still integrating what I experienced. I went for a walk with one of my fellow SOW sisters the other day and said the words, “I feel whole. Thank you Lacey!”

Sarah smiling, sharing her transformative experience with School of Whole.

Experience the Modules: Your Path to Deep Transformation

Shannon Dalke

“Start today or as soon as you can! I had questioned prior to starting if I could afford or should spend money on something like this…. And I even questioned the other students that were doing it again. I likely will sign up again! In Canada we spend $200 for a single therapy session. School of Whole in my opinion has gotten me to a much different place then the many many sessions and literal years of therapy! Not saying therapy isn't good but this is different, real connection, letting go of all the BS, finally. This has been real, raw and absolutely fucking liberating!”

Shannon smiling, sharing her transformative experience with School of Whole.

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Is School of Whole Right For You?

This program is for women who are truly ready to embrace their power.

School of Whole IS for you if...

  • You're ready to show up for yourself consistently to powerfully propel your life forward.

  • You take radical responsibility for your growth and are eager to reflect on your own journey.

  • You are dedicated to investing your precious time, money, and energy into achieving profound transformation.

  • You're excited to explore the spiritual and energetic sides of life, open to new perspectives.

  • You love stretching outside your comfort zone and are inspired by new practices.

  • You've experienced past trauma and have already done 1-on-1 work with a professional, now ready for a deeper layer of embodiment and empowerment.

  • You have a possibility mindset, believing that incredible things are possible for you.

  • You want to participate fully in a safe, powerful group, sharing your experiences and speaking your truth.

  • You're ready to step into the fullness of who you are, claiming your sexual core energy and igniting your creative power.

School of Whole IS NOT for you if...

  • You're not yet ready to show up for yourself in a dedicated way.

  • You tend to blame others for your circumstances instead of reflecting on your own role.

  • You're unwilling to invest time, money, and energy into your personal growth.

  • You're closed off to exploring spiritual or energetic perspectives.

  • You're uncomfortable stretching outside your comfort zone with new exercises.

  • You have unaddressed past trauma and haven't worked with a qualified professional (this is a group program, not 1-on-1 therapy).

  • You tend towards pessimism or don't believe things are possible for you.

  • You prefer not to participate fully or share your experiences in a group setting.

  • You're not yet ready to claim your sexual core energy or ignite your creative power.

School of Whole Works.

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Your Future Awaits: Whole, Connected, and Turned ON. This Could Be You…

  • Healed of shame and disconnect, experiencing true pleasure and profound love for your body.

  • Living a life of unwavering turn-on, feeling lit up, vibrant, and deeply satisfied.

  • A powerful woman who commands her desires and makes them manifest.

  • Authentically vocal about your truth, speaking from a place of deep knowing and confidence.

  • In tune with your body's wisdom (soul, pussy, womb), truly living life from your core.

  • Embracing your cyclic nature, loving your period, and flowing with life's rhythms.

  • Activating your fertility in all areas, bringing your passions to life and magnetizing opportunities.

  • Calm, confident, and intuitively guided in every decision.

  • Living a life of purpose, clear on your unique contribution.

  • Creating space for yourself daily, free from the hustle and demands.

  • Unapologetically feminine and sexy, defined by your own radiant truth.

  • Building the life you've always dreamed of, anchored in your values and deepest desires.

 FAQs

  • School of Whole is a comprehensive, 12-month go-at-your-own-pace online program designed to guide women into finally understanding and expressing their sexuality, moving beyond shame and disconnect. You'll gain instant access to our core curriculum modules, engage in live calls with Lacey, and become part of a powerful, supportive sisterhood. It's built for deep, lasting transformation – all on your terms.

  • SOW is for women ready to embrace their feminine sexuality and power, take radical responsibility for their growth, and commit to healing past disconnects to live a truly turned-on life. Our program's content and practices are tailored to the unique biological and societal experiences of cisgender women.

  • Yes, absolutely! School of Whole is designed with your busy life in mind. All core curriculum materials are available for you to access at your leisure within the 12-month program duration. There's no "behind" here – only your unique pace of discovery and integration. We encourage you to move through the material in a way that feels authentic and supportive to your journey.

  • Your journey to profound connection, ignited pleasure, and unstoppable confidence is a commitment to yourself, and we've made it as accessible as possible.

    The investment for the comprehensive, 12-month School of Whole journey is just $97 USD per month, on a 12-month contract.

    This monthly investment provides you with continuous expert guidance, unwavering sisterhood support, and consistent access to the transformative curriculum, empowering you to truly greet, meet, heal, and get vibrantly lit up and turned on to your life. It's a powerful and accessible commitment to your most authentic, satisfied self.

  • Yes! While School of Whole delves into powerful energetic and spiritual aspects of self and sexuality (like Womb Energetics and the Sacred Triangle), it's taught in an accessible and grounded way. All that's required is an open heart and a willingness to explore. You'll be gently guided to stretch beyond your comfort zone and discover new dimensions of yourself.

  • Your safety and healing are paramount. School of Whole is a powerful group program focused on embodiment, sexual empowerment, and integration. It is for you if you have already done 1-on-1 work with a trained professional for past sexual or emotional trauma. This program is not a substitute for therapy or professional individual trauma support. We emphasize radical responsibility for your own journey and encourage continued professional support as needed.

  • Not at all! School of Whole is about your individual relationship with your body, your pleasure, and your power. Whether you are single, in a partnership, or exploring your sexuality, this program will profoundly benefit you. The focus is on your internal journey of self-connection and healing, which then ripples out into all areas of your life, including your relationships.

  • After your 12-month journey, you'll have integrated profound shifts and cultivated a deep connection to your turned-on self. You will have lifetime access to the core curriculum materials to revisit anytime. Many women choose to stay connected with the Sisterhood or explore advanced opportunities. You'll carry the tools, wisdom, and vibrant energy with you long after the program concludes.

  • Your enrollment in School of Whole is a 12-month commitment designed for your deep transformation.

    Please choose mindfully, as monthly payments are part of a binding 12-month contract and are non-refundable once processed.

    We offer a 14-day refund policy from your initial purchase date. If you decide the program isn't the right fit within this period, simply contact us for a full refund.

  • While the depth of your transformation will correlate with your engagement, many women find that dedicating just 1-2 hours per week to the modules, live call / replays, and sisterhood connection creates powerful momentum. This is a self-paced journey, designed to weave into your life, not overwhelm it.

  • You'll be held in a powerful container of support! This includes:

    • Live Calls with Lacey: Regular live coaching, channeling, and Q&A sessions to guide your path.

    • The Sisterhood: A vibrant, global community of like-souled women ready to champion you every step of the way in our private online portal.

    • Sisterhood Partnerships: Monthly opportunities for deeper 1:1 connection with a fellow student.

    • Curriculum Resources: In-depth videos, workbooks, guided practices, and reflection exercises.